Posts Tagged ‘children’

Empathy and Our Animal Friends

August 23rd, 2011

Nicole Forsyth is president and CEO for RedRover (formerly United Animal Nations), a nonprofit organization that strengthens the bond between people and animals writes about the importance of empathy and how we might teach empathy to young people. She writes:

Stories and perspective-taking play a critical role in the development of moral reasoning4. When we read or listen to a story, we imagine what the characters might be feeling—in essence we practice a key component of empathy. Some children do this naturally as they read, and as they take in hundreds of characters and share their moral dilemmas, they learn “what the good guys would do.” These narrative memories can be used when they have to make their own decisions about what is right or wrong.

Other children need to be prompted more—guided into how to delve into the perspectives of others. Questions designed to challenge students pre-existing knowledge and ideas, questions that illicit critical thinking; along with group-based discussions where they hear the thoughts and feelings of their peers, are required for students to truly understand another’s viewpoint and to learn empathy.

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Promoting Empathy With Your Teen

May 19th, 2010

Ugo UcheFrom Ugo Uche, blogger at Psychology Today…

In the last five years, I have been witness to a movement led by psychologists and mental health clinicians, spreading a message that main stream child rearing practices unintentionally create children who are psychologically fragile. A favorite theme for this movement has been, “We are creating a nation of wimps.” This movement has been born primarily in response to the idea of anti bullying rules and laws being passed to prevent students saying hurtful remarks to their peers.

While I have agreed with the psychological fragility most youths in today’s culture struggle with, I do not believe the problem lies with a lack of psychological toughness in today’s youth. Rather I believe the problem lies with a fundamental lack of understanding and practice of conscientiousness and empathy.

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How to Deprogram Bullies: Teaching Kindness 101

May 16th, 2010

This is encouraging….

At a public school in Toronto, 25 third- and fourth-graders circle a green blanket and focus intently on a 10-month-old baby with serious brown eyes. Baby Stephana, as they call her, crawls toward the center of the blanket, then turns to glance at her mother. “When she looks back to her mom, we know she’s checking in to see if everything’s cool,” explains one boy, who is learning how to understand and respond to the emotions of the baby — and to those of his classmates — in a program called Roots of Empathy (ROE).

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Teaching Kids Empathy (AUDIO)

April 2nd, 2010

virginia-prescottFrom Virginia Prescott of New Hampshire Public Radio:

Nine high school students were indicted Monday on felony charges in the suicide case of a 15-year-old Massachusetts freshman. Phoebe Prince and her family had moved to the country from Ireland last year. The young teen hanged herself in January after relentless bullying from peers.

More than 40 states have anti-bullying laws requiring schools to adopt preventive policies against bullying, but the indictment of students is unprecedented. It got us thinking about an earlier conversation we had about the growing movement to teach empathy in the classroom. The Boston Globe reported that about 10 percent of schools have added social and emotional lessons to their curricula.

So what does an empathy curriculum look like? We asked Dr. Marc Brackett these questions last spring. He’s co-developer of the RULER Approach of emotional literacy and the deputy director of the Health, Emotion, and Behavior Labratory at Yale. Also with us was frequent Word of Mouth Contributor and mother-of-two Sarah Baker.

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‘Empathic Civilization’: Building A New World One Child At A Time

March 8th, 2010

Mary Gordon is the Founder/President of Roots of Empathy, Blogging at the HuffPost:

However, empathy is not just a matter of nature, but also of nurture. Homo empathicus may be born with the capacity for empathy, but we must experience it to know how to do it. Empathy develops out of our earliest loving relationships.

And here is where we have a tremendous opportunity as a society. If we want to change societal levels of empathy, the best place to start is with children. We can impact civilization in profound and monumental ways by supporting the development of empathy in all children. Just imagine: an entire generation of children, with their capacity for empathy fully nurtured, growing up to become the parents, citizens, and world leaders of tomorrow. The well-known African proverb is that it takes a village to raise a child. What I’m proposing is that it might take an empathic child to raise a village (and many children to raise our global village).

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Empathy’s Natural, but Nurturing It Helps

February 24th, 2010

An excerpt from an article by Jean Brody in the Health section of the New York Times:

Brody_Jane_150Children should also be helped to recognize their own feelings and express them, he wrote. By learning to identify and label their feelings, children are better able to recognize the feelings of others. For example, when a child becomes frustrated with a toy car and throws it across the room, his caretaker could say something like: “You’re feeling upset because the car isn’t working the way it should. You don’t like it when toys don’t work.”

Dr. Zahn-Waxler says the kind of discipline a child receives should “help the child regulate emotion, to calm down rather than become more agitated.” She advises parents to stay calm: “The more emotionally aroused you are, the more aroused the child is likely to become. Hitting or screaming at a child results in anger and fear and interferes with the child’s ability to care for others.”

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Encouraging Empathy (From The Hindu)

February 22nd, 2010

From the Life and Style section of  The Hindu:

Children learn very early in life to put themselves in others’ shoes. But to get that going, they must share a positive and caring relationship with parents and caretakers

Empathy, the ability to put yourself in someone else’s shoes and recognise and respond to what that person is feeling, is an essential ingredient of a civilised society. Manifestations of empathy often show up early in life, as when a toddler brings a favourite toy or blanket to another child who is injured or in distress. Some experts maintain that infants display empathy when they whimper or cry upon hearing another baby cry.

Lacking empathy, people act only out of self-interest, without regard for the well-being or feelings of others. The absence of empathy fosters antisocial behaviour, cold-blooded murder, genocide.

Children may enter the world with different capacities for empathy, a result of neural connections in the brain. The capacity for empathy may be partly or wholly lacking in disorders like autism and schizophrenia, in which the mind is focused inward.

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