Posts Tagged ‘community’

‘Empathic Civilization’: Building A New World One Child At A Time

March 8th, 2010

Mary Gordon is the Founder/President of Roots of Empathy, Blogging at the HuffPost:

However, empathy is not just a matter of nature, but also of nurture. Homo empathicus may be born with the capacity for empathy, but we must experience it to know how to do it. Empathy develops out of our earliest loving relationships.

And here is where we have a tremendous opportunity as a society. If we want to change societal levels of empathy, the best place to start is with children. We can impact civilization in profound and monumental ways by supporting the development of empathy in all children. Just imagine: an entire generation of children, with their capacity for empathy fully nurtured, growing up to become the parents, citizens, and world leaders of tomorrow. The well-known African proverb is that it takes a village to raise a child. What I’m proposing is that it might take an empathic child to raise a village (and many children to raise our global village).

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Planting the Seeds of Empathy

November 24th, 2009

I’m encouraged to see communities embrace empathy, teaching children to develop empathic skills. As the world gets smaller, the value of empathic skills rises, from where I stand. Kudos and gratitude to Drayton Valley in Canada. From the Western Review:

The Early Childhood Development Centre is helping children express their feelings at a younger age thanks to a program called Seeds of Empathy.

Like Roots of Empathy, a program already offered in several schools in the Drayton Valley area, Seeds of Empathy brings babies into the classroom to interact with the children. Through this interaction the children learn how to empathize with others.

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A Plea for Empathic Policemen

November 5th, 2009

This morning on police website officer.com, police Chaplain Dave Fair suggests police officers try practicing empathy in their interactions with the public. Here’s an excerpt:

The dictionary defines empathy as understanding and entering into another’s feelings. The definition of empathic is showing empathy or ready comprehension of others’ states.

In our discussion of empathy I’m not saying we don’t write the ticket. I am saying we can be empathic and recognize what the violator might be going through.

The other side of the coin is officer discretion; in being empathic if we sense the person is under a lot of stress and strain. If we get the feeling the person is stressed or has a lot on his or her mind do we have to write the citation?

What if they are acting like a jerk? Do we write an attitude ticket? Maybe, but not so fast. If you have discretion, consider not writing the citation. Maybe issue a written warning instead.

I’m not saying everyone gets off the hook. What I am saying is when we use empathy we don’t aggravate the situation.

In life people have excuses and reasons for what they do. An excuse is just that. It’s blaming someone or something else for the malady. On the other hand the person may have a valid reason for doing what they do. Maybe they are on the way to the hospital where there is a critically ill family member. Perhaps their wife is locked out of the car in a secluded area. The list could go on and on.

For sure and certain, our job as officers is to protect and serve. Often we must protect people from themselves. If they don’t have their mind on what they are doing they could be a threat. Yet if we become students of human behavior we learn about cause and effect. We come to understand that people are products of what they think and the life they have lived.

There are times officers make matters worse by failing to understand the people they make contact with are often like themselves.

Chaplain Fair’s perspective inspires hope in me. Read more…

‘Man In The Van’ comes to hear tales of recession woes

October 6th, 2009

van1One man’s quest to bring empathy where it’s needed:

“This is a great need for us as a country to listen to each other and have empathy,” he said. “I think if we can start understanding each other and listening without judgment, I think that will help us as a city to get out of the recession.”

Equipped with only his bright orange van and a few Sharpies, Heideman has been asking Americans throughout more than 25 states to write their stories on his van and share them with the rest of the country. He calls it The Man In The Van Project.

“It’s a way for people to connect to each other and feel empathy for other people,” he said. “It’s about listening.”

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Empathy Labyrinth Creator to Appear on CBS

September 25th, 2009

The Empathy Labyrinth creator, Marc Weiner, is scheduled to appear briefly on the CBS Morning News show on Thursday morning October 1,  2009 sometime between 7:00 and 9:00 AM. He will be promoting the Empathy  Labyrinth, The International Day for Empathic Action, and NVC.  We are very thankful to CBS for this wonderful opportunity to  spread our message of the power of empathy.  

The International Day for Empathic Action

The Empathy Labyrinth

Building a Culture of Empathy

August 31st, 2009

A group in the Bay Area of Northern California has chosen to respond to U.S. President Obama’s call to action concerning empathy.  Progressivespirit.com is “Building a Culture of Empathy”, with community activities like  the  “Empathy Cafe”, and a new video project.

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Empathy Street Teams

August 3rd, 2009

BayNVC is bringing Nonviolent Communication to the streets, addressing conflicts on our streets, in our neighborhoods, and in our hearts. Empathy street teams were in Berkekey, California on Saturday, and look for Bay NVC coming to a street corner near you!   Read more…   Follow on Facebook.