Posts Tagged ‘compassion’

Commentary: New charter counters polarization with compassion

October 21st, 2009

By Karen Armstrong and Archbishop Desmond Tutu, Common Ground News Service

On Sept. 27 at the Vancouver Peace Summit, among some of the world’s most well-known peace-makers — including Nobel Prize winners and internationally acclaimed authors — we had the opportunity to invite people everywhere to rediscover the Golden Rule.

The Charter of Compassion comprises leading thinkers from many different faiths. It is a cooperative effort to restore not only compassionate thinking but, more important, compassionate action to the center of religious, moral and political life. Compassion is the principled determination to put ourselves in the shoes of the other, and lies at the heart of all religious and ethical systems.

Why is this so important?

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Patients benefit from a dose of empathy

October 15th, 2009

empathy-medicalStudy finds colds lasted a day less with caring professionals

Going to a doctor who understands how you feel and encourages you to get better can do more than boost your spirits. It can also be good for your health.

That’s the message of a study by a team of researchers at the University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health and the H. Lee Moffitt Cancer Center and Research Institute in Tampa, Fla.

Patients with colds whose clinicians showed empathy toward them in an office visit suffered one fewer day of misery than did patients whose clinicians took a just-the-facts approach. The research was published in the July/August issue of the journal Family Medicine.

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Got Empathy? International Day for Empathic Action. Oct. 2

September 21st, 2009

People who participate in the International Day of Empathic Action will help to build strong trusting relationships in their communities, promote nonviolence as a viable way of life, and establish compassionate ways of living together. IDEA events will directly expose participants to the power of empathy and the effective change it can have on local and global issues.

Some ideas for participation:

  • Call a local coffee shop – Coffee, Tea, & Empathy
  • At a school – offer to be an Empath for the day
  • Be an Empathy First Responder – offer servie to fire departments, police departments, etc.
  • Ask to work with a victim witness team for the day
  • Go to a nursing home or hospital – bring an Needs Card deck & play empathy poker with folks
  • Offer Empathy-To-Go in the form of a smile or empathic presence
  • At a nursing home or assisted living center, offer to listen with empathy
  • Go to a senior center, offer to listen with empathy – for staff or attendees
  • Make 10 phone calls to people you know who may need connection – listen with empathy.
  • Reflect empathy to everyone you encounter for the day
  • If encounter someone homeless – take them for a meal & listen to their story
  • Make cards of appreciation that clearly state how someone has enriched your life -Mail them
  • Partner with local NVC community to create an event
  • Contact your local Peace and Justice center – offer your service for the day
  • Invite various social action groups to come together to cross pollinate for peace
  • Read a story about Empathic Action to your family before bed

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Caring doctor is the best Rx

September 21st, 2009

Study: Kindness better than drugs for treating colds

Purge your medicine cabinet of cold medication and find yourself a doctor who empathizes with you during times of illness. You may recover faster.

A new study conducted by the University of Wisconsin School of Medicine and Public Health published in the July issue of Family Medicine found people recover faster from the common cold when their doctor is compassionate. The research focused on 350 patients from primary care clinics in southern Wisconsin.

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Jackals, Giraffes Teach Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

September 19th, 2009

From the Durango Herald:

How does a young woman in a Nazi concentration camp care about the kind of day a guard is having? Why does a young man in jail in Albuquerque say he’s seeing life from a whole new perspective?
According to the Center for Nonviolent Communication, now based in Albuquerque, the answer is compassionate listening and empathy.

“Nonviolent communication is founded on the language  and communication skills that strengthen our ability to remain human, even under trying conditions,” Marshall Rosenberg, the founder of the center, wrote in his book Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Compassion.

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